Mahigit isang dekada na ang nakalilipas nang magpakasal sina Rachel Alejandro at Carl Sta. Maria. Sa ngayon ay hindi pa nabibiyayaan ng supling ang mag-asawa.
"Ako, okay na okay sa akin 'yung ginawa ko na I got married in my late 30s. I think hindi ideal 'yon for people who want to start a family. I think good idea to start in your early 30s at the most. Para if you intend to have a few kids sabi nga nila. Sabi sa akin ng OB optimum age for childbirth is hanggang 36 lang," nakangiting pahayag ni Rachel.
Kahit wala pang anak ay masaya umano ang singer sa kanyang buhay-may-asawa. Limampung taong gulang na ngayon si Rachel. "I didn't have kids anymore. Nagsara na ang karinderya as they say. I'm happy naman with my decision. Kasi I was older na and more mature. I've been married for 13 years and I'd say if that's any indication na it would be a decision based on as a more mature person, parang you're more likely to really get to know the person kaysa 'pag bata ka. When you're so young, it's really just about the feelings. You have to consider kasi talaga everything. At saka maganda rin na magkakilala kayo nang mabuti before you make that big decision," makahulugang paliwanag ng singer.
Para kay Rachel ay mahalaga pa rin ang pagkakaroon ng anak at pagbuo ng sariling pamilya. "There's a little bit of regret there two years ago na parang sana pala I did this, sana prinioritize ko. But it's okay kasi 'yung husband ko at saka ako we're so busy and he said. 'See? How would it be kung may anak tayo? Eh 'yung aso nga lang ang hirap?' I'm pretty happy naman, siyempre when I see the kids of my siblings, I'm happy kasi at least I see na lumalaki na 'yung mga pamangkin ko. Pero siyempre iba pa rin 'yung sabi nila na sarili mong anak. But that's an experience that I missed out on and it's something that I have to live with I guess," pagtatapat ng singer-actress.
MARU BOK - SHOWBIZ NEWS CONTRIBUTOR
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